For me identity is about... who am I?  

 

Who are you?  

 

And what is that you’re striving to achieve? 

 

One of the things that I do when I’m working with clients, is we look at identity as a subject as it’s really important. It’s possible to really misunderstand this particular area. 

One of the biggest challenges that I’ve observed lots of business owners have, whether it comes to their business life or their personal life, is the belief that everything needs to be perfect. That in order to succeed, everything needs to be just right. 

 

In my own personal view, there’s nothing wrong with high standards, but when we have standards so high that they paralyse us, are those standards serving or are they actually hindering? 

With the conflict of different identities, I’ve realised my daughter is now in year 9, she’s 13, she’s going to be 14 this school year. She wants to go to University, so she will probably be 18 then. So potentially, I’ve only got four summers left. Four summers! 

 

How can you create an environment which can satisfy your commitment to your business and your family? 

So today I want to talk about success, and the duality of success. 

 

There are two sides. Like the old cassette tapes, we’ve got the A-side and we’ve got the B-Side... 

On a daily basis we, as human beings, tend to use the words “I am”. Whatever it is that comes after the “I am” kind of determines your identity. Most people don’t consciously realise that they’re actually doing that, they’re setting their own identity. 

 

Identity is a really interesting subject. Sometimes you can set your own identity, and there are times when other people will kind of set and identity for you or reinforce the identity that you give yourself... 

A question came up in my mind recently, what if you just don’t know? What if you don’t have clarity? What if you’re in the situation where you’re not happy, you know that things need to change, but you don’t know what exactly? So, I thought it would be helpful, to create a blog for you on what you can do about that.... 

Are you in the right environment to make decisions and take action in your business?  

 

Are you stuck in the middle? Daily fire-fighting, working through a never ending task list of minor issues, but not stopping to look at the overall picture and lead your business in the right direction?  

 

This blog is coming to you from the Millionaire Business Builder program in Morocco, some of you ask me what happens when we are out on location with clients, here is a sneaky peak... 

This blog is about getting to know me, some insight into who I am, what I do and why I do it. 

 

Passionate about empowerment and positive thinking I work within the success coach community alongside other coaches, I also train coaches and support clients with their personal and business-related growth. 

 

Committed to inspiring others through coaching and speaking, find out more about me and why I help others...